Do you often go along with certain situations in your life just to please people? But in reality you just want to say ‘no’ but because you don’t want to upset or hurt anyone.
I was the poster child of people pleasing. I was so afraid to say what I really meant or what I desired because I was worried that people would reject and abandon me. My beliefs were that if I speak my truth, that people will take their love away from me. That in order to make other people happy around me, I had to say and do things that pleased them.
And for a long time this kept happening to me. I would speak my truth, and someone called me a bitch or disrespectful. As a result I kept my mouth shut, I didn’t stand up for myself and it felt like I was dying inside.
My inability to speak up affected my health immensely, it kept me from deepening my relationships with others and I was constantly stuck in a cycle of unworthiness.
Now, why am I sharing this with you….I share this with you authentically because I want you to know that there’s a different way to live your life, that I was once in your shoes and I found a way out of it. And that I want you to live a much happier, healthier and fulfilled life starting from NOW.
Here’s the truth, when you constantly find yourself, feeling upset, frustrated or resentful because you went along with things instead of listening to your truth, this means that you don’t have HEALTHY BOUNDARIES.
Creating healthy boundaries can seem scary, overwhelming and confusing at times. There are even moments when you feel selfish for setting boundaries with certain people in your life.
And the fear you might be feeling right now around setting more healthy boundaries around your time, space and energy, is a beautiful place to start setting healthy boundaries in your life right now.
The truth is, your boundaries are so important in creating a happy, healthy, authentic and fulfilled life.
HOW YOU ASK…..
When you set healthy boundaries you…
1)feel happier because there is a balance between giving and receiving
2) are healthier because you are listening to you body’s inner nudges of what feels good and what doesn’t feel good to you
3)are more authentic because you speak your truth with confidence and you know that when you express your truth, you are honoring the highest good of all involved
4) have a more fulfilled life because you are engage in your life wholeheartedly and you are doing what you love in all areas of your life.
So today, I invite you to really tap into this energy of “My healthy boundaries support me to feel happier, healthier and more fulfilled right now.”
It takes deep courage and boldness to willingly look at your life through the eyes of love. My invitation for you is to allow yourself the space and time to heal and let go of what no longer serves you so that you can live the life that you know that you deserve, and one that you desire in your heart.
Gift yourself permission to live your life even more fully right now, you do this powerfully through a higher level of…
DIVINE SELF- LOVE
PURE SELF- ACCEPTANCE
Through Divine Self Love you can manifest your dreams and desires with ease, grace and joy.
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